FARGO — Everybody dies. But according to best-selling author and speaker Barbara Karnes, most people think "Everyone 'else' dies. I'm not going to, and neither is anyone close to me," she says. Karnes says humans are like ostriches sticking their heads into the sand. "When it comes to the end of life, we don't want to look at it if we don't have to," she says. "Even when we have to, we tend to not want to deal with it."