Home modification services are available
Home Modifications: Access Solutions provides home modification services to promote safety and independent living for seniors and the physically challenged to enable them to continue to live in their own homes. They serve the entire Metro area and can be reached at 612-238-5429.
Additional Caregiver resources you might find helpful:
Memory Loss Support Group meets the third Tuesday of each month from 1:30 p.m. to 2:30 p.m. in the private dining room at Regina Medical Center. Contact Kim Schrader at 651-404-1383 for more information.
Vision Loss Support Group meets the fourth Thursday of each month from 10:15 a.m. to 11:15 a.m. in the activities kitchen at Regina Medical Center. Contact Kim Schrader at 651-404-1383 for more information.
If you would like information about Advance Care Directives or help completing one with your loved one, contact Rev. Peter Morlock, Advanced Care Planning chaplain at Regina Medical Center. He can be reached by calling 651-404-1376.
Caring Reflections: Two Bits
A close shave has always been important to my dad. In fact, as a younger man he would sometimes shave twice a day--once in the morning and again after supper before heading out to an evening meeting. Now shaving is a very long and tiring ritual that he can only manage a few times a week. It's been second nature to him for eons, and he refuses to accept help with it.
...Until this week. When I arrived he had just had a shower and, probably because he knew I was coming, was about to try to shave, too. But, head in hands, he could hardly keep his eyes open, so I offered to do it for him. And, this time, he agreed. His younger self wouldn't have been satisfied with the results, I'm afraid, but the Dad of today seemed to find it relaxing and even pleasurable.
It's always sad to notice another ability ebbing away. And yet for the caregiver there's joy in being able to bring a little comfort and contentment. When I left, he said, "Thanks for the shave. How much do I owe you?"
(Editor's note: Beth's complete online journal can be found at: www.darts1.org/blog/caring-reflections.)
For a resource guide for service providers who can help in your caregiver journey, please stop by the Hastings Senior Center in the Tilden Community Center, or go online to: http://www.darts1.org/dakota-county-eldercare-resources.
If you would like to submit a question or concern about your own caregiving experience, and get direct, one-to-one information and advice from a licensed social worker and eldercare advisor, please visit: www. darts1.org/online-caregiving-advisor or call 651-455-1560.